Just a heads up, this will incluced a brief mention of sexual intercorse so if that makes you uncomfortable skip over this yap session
Love is a consept that has never fully made since to me. I've always wondered how people can get married and be with someone for so long and not fall out of love, because you're telling me you've seen this pesons flaws and the things that make them a bad person,but you chose to stay with them because of the good things? The response I always got when I would tell my mom about this was that it's like how I love my family, but in my eyes it truely isn't. The very clear difference is that I'm not romanticly attracted to my family. I care for my family and somewhat trust them but that's not love. According to google love is, "an intense feeling of affection." The problem I have started to realize is that I barely like people in a romantic sense let alone love. My brain feel programed differently and I just have to deal with the fact that I long for a partner but I don't care for people that way. Also as I gotten older I've started to realize that most do fall out of love or find that they don't work in the end. It's seems that so many people want to wait until marriage but are so sex hungery that they jump into marriage fast.
In conclusion I think that love is one of the most confusing things ever.